Relationships have taught me two great important life lessons:
1. I like my own company best.
2. I enjoy doing what I like, when I like, without having to raise my
and ask permission to take a piss.
Here were some relationships that were tipped to fail from the onset.
Pania and Koiteioki
A sea maiden that can only come on land at night, and a man of the earth who needs her to meet his family during the day... There are a few fundamental issues in the way, that may not be able to be worked through.
Rhiannon and her two husbands. One of Faye and the other of earth. How did she manage?
The mind.
Notice how the co-habitate in the same body? Their orientation, their way of expressing themselves is different. People think that only the mind can think. Research shows that the heart too is smart. Two sovereign thinking organs living in the same body?
When you hear the word intelligence the first thing you think of is the brain. New research has shown that the heart is in fact smart. The brain in our head is dutifully obeying messages that are being sent from another brain "The brain in the heart" - Heart Math
Bi-polar?
I reminisce about an ex-partner who made me see this in myself. I like vegetables, he likes meat and loathed anything with leaves. I could sit here all day and sing his sonet, but I will get back to the subject. i sometimes I wondered what was I supposed to learn here? I tried to look through the mirrors but came up clueless.
Everything made sense over a beer and a conversation that went something like this:
"Why don't you stop using your heart and start using your brain, stuff everyone else, think about yourself" The antagonist shrieked.
"Honestly, I don't like using my brain because it sucks." I concluded.
"What?...Why?" He looked at me perplexed.
"Because my brain is clinical" I replied "It doesn't care about anyone else, all it wants to do is to get things done. My brain is calculating, ruthless, it cares for noone. It sees flaws and dislikes imperfections, its a task master. I don't like to consult it to lead my life"
"So you let your heart lead?"
"Yes, I do"
"If you used your brain you'd be excellent in business"
As I sized up my partner of old...I realised the mirror. If my mind could manifest as a person, it would look act and be like him.
It is often said, in matters of the heart, it wants what it wants, and the mind has to follow- Something I read, but made up the rest
Look what happens when one side is favoured over the other. Genesis 4:1 - 4:16. The bible story of Cain and Abel.
The two have to meet somewhere. Perhaps on the bridge between the heart and mind. Alchemy? Not quite. A blending and merging.
People merge energies by hanging out. Either professional personal or just accidental. The energy meets blends then seperates.
Give to me your leather, take from me my lace - Stevie Nicks
How does our relationships with others factor in this divine union? The heart and the mind (inside our bodies). The Divine Masculine and Feminine?
The Divine Masculine:
The bridge I envision which may be applicable to this merger is how we relate to and treat others? Could our relationships reflect the state of our divine nature? Could relationships be the bridge or the key to which both can view and interact with each other? Blending the heart/mind, the Divine Masculine/Feminine. Blending the two together. This blending and merging ourselves with ourselves, merges ourselves with others.
